Arrogant Former Expats and the Long Love-Hate Relationship with Tourism
"Just let the tourists gorge themselves on those overpriced Cotswold afternoon teas!" This scornful remark came from acquaintances of mine who spent mere few years of their youth living in England some thirty years ago. Having also lived in America for much of their early life, they were no stranger to long-term stays abroad. Still, it struck me as peculiar that someone with only a passing connection to tourism could voice such a seemingly authoritative opinion on the subject. There’s a curious phenomenon among some who have lived overseas for an extended period, especially in their early childhood. A sense of distinction begins to grow—an invisible line separating themselves from mere tourists. For these individuals, their time abroad elevates them in their own eyes to residents or locals, entirely distinct from transient visitors. Indeed, the longer the stay, the stronger this mentality tends to become. It’s as though time alone confers an unspo...